"You can't stop the waves but you can learn how to surf."
Jon Kabat Zinn
I help people surf the waves of divorce and co-parenting with more calm, clarity and confidence
Grab my free guide:
10 Steps to a More Mindful Divorce
to Limit Costs and Conflict
HOW YOU BENEFIT FROM COACHING

DIVORCE COACHING
- Get clear on the process and your best options
- Avoid burning out friends and family
- Save money
- Be organized and prepared
- Make informed decisions that are aligned with your values
- Be the best parent you can be during a challenging time
- Be confident in your decisions and build resilience
- Look ahead with hope and purpose

CO-PARENT COACHING
- Support your children through the process
- Make transitions easier for kids
- Communicate effectively in tense situations
- Learn what helps and hurts children during separation / divorce
- Keep children safe
- Save money by avoiding costly mistakes
- Stay out of court
- Build a strong foundation for your family for now and the future

POST - DIVORCE TRANSITION COACHING
- Create closure and move on
- Trust yourself so you can trust others again
- Increase your confidence and self-esteem
- Develop healthy relationship skills
- Create better habits for your mind and body
- Find hope and joy in dating
- Know you enough, just as you are
- Create a legacy of healthy, secure relationships
Divorce Coach FAQ's:
- Increasingly sought after as the first call when facing or contemplating divorce
- One stop shop for support with the emotional, legal, financial and communication aspects of divorce
- Helps you stay out of court, de-escalate conflict, preserve the positives and save money
- Confidential and customized
- A Certified Divorce Coach can help you build a team of vetted professionals

Meet Heather
Heather Cary has spent the last 25 years bringing out the strengths and confidence in her students and clients.
A CDC Certified Divorce Coach® and CDC Divorce Transition and Recovery Coach®, Heather specializes in helping parents make informed, intentional decisions during divorce and beyond so they can save money and look back with pride on how they handled the challenge.
A trained Mediator and Parent Educator with Clackamas County, Heather serves on several panels with other divorce professionals to offer low-cost, high-impact resources to her community.
She coaches with a unique blend of compassion, humor, a focus on strengths and progress coupled with a firm kick in the pants to be proactive, not reactive.
Her clients do not lack for generous support or resources.
Contact Heather
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