Protect What Matters Most During Divorce

Divorce Decision Coaching, Child-Focused Co-Parent Coaching & Parenting Plan Mediation

You don't have to choose between protecting yourself and protecting your children.

Whether you're considering divorce, preparing for mediation, facing litigation, or struggling with co-parenting after divorce, I help parents make informed decisions, manage conflict, and create healthier outcomes for their children.

Coaching & Mediation Services

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    Divorce Decision Coaching

    Divorce is a legal process, but the hardest decisions are rarely legal.

    Navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and a plan. Get strategic support for important decisions, mediation preparation, communication challenges, and the many practical and emotional aspects of separation.

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    Child-Focused Co-Parent Coaching

    Help Your Children Thrive, Not Just Survive, During Divorce

    Learn what helps children thrive during family transition. Develop communication and parenting strategies that reduce conflict, support your child's well-being, and help your family adapt to life in two homes.

  • Parenting Plan Mediation

    Create practical, child-centered agreements without unnecessary court conflict.

    Work through parenting issues before conflict escalates or court involvement becomes necessary. Private mediation provides the time, flexibility, and support needed to create durable, child-focused agreements.

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Meet Heather


I'm a Divorce Coach, Mediator, and Collaborative Divorce Professional in Oregon with a practice grounded in alternative dispute resolution. For more than two decades, I've helped children, parents, and families navigate life's most challenging transitions with greater clarity, confidence, and less conflict.

Divorce can feel overwhelming. When communication breaks down and important decisions need to be made, it's easy to feel stuck, reactive, or uncertain about what comes next. My role is to help you slow down, get organized, understand your options, and make thoughtful decisions that support your long-term goals.

As a divorce coach, mediator, parent educator, and collaborative divorce professional, I bring a unique combination of conflict-resolution expertise, decision support, and child-focused guidance. Whether you're deciding if divorce is the right path, preparing for mediation, navigating complicated co-parenting dynamics, or building a parenting plan, I help you move forward with greater confidence and intention.

Whether:

  • You're contemplating divorce and wondering what to do next

  • You're in the middle of the process and need practical guidance, organization, and support

  • Your divorce is final, but you're still facing co-parenting challenges or unresolved issues

I'm here to help.

Together, we'll focus on reducing unnecessary conflict, making informed decisions, protecting what matters most, and creating a healthier path forward for you and your family.

Let me help you figure out your next best step

“Heather’s energy, support and presence in my life has been invaluable and helped me to feel stronger, more confident in my decision making. I recommend Heather and her coaching for anyone going through divorce.”

— Stephanie., divorce coaching client

Blog Articles

How to Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce

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The Truth About Parallel-Parenting

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Getting Organized For Divorce Will Save You Money - Here’s How

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Think You Can’t Mediate? Think Again.

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