"You can't stop the waves but you can learn how to surf."
Jon Kabat Zinn
I help people surf the waves of divorce and post-divorce transition with more calm, clarity, confidence and courage
Grab my free guide:
10 Steps to a More Mindful Divorce
to Limit Costs and Conflict
HOW YOU BENEFIT FROM COACHING

DIVORCE COACHING
- Get clear on the process and your best options
- Avoid burning out friends and family
- Save money
- Be organized and prepared
- Make decisions that are informed and aligned with your values
- Be the best parent you can be during a challenging time
- Be more confident and build resilience
- Look ahead with hope and purpose

MINDFUL DIVORCE WORKSHOP
- 4 week, small group, live online format
- Costs less than 1:1 coaching
- Guided support from a Certified Divorce Coach who's been there
- Less stress and overwhelm
- More clarity and confidence
- Get organized and prepared to tackle legal and financial divorce documents
- Save money by avoiding costly mistakes
- Communicate effectively and negotiate with confidence
- Be able to support your kids through the transition

POST - DIVORCE TRANSITION COACHING
- Create closure and move on
- Trust yourself so you can trust others again
- Increase your confidence and self-esteem
- Develop healthy relationship skills
- Create better habits for your mind and body
- Find hope and joy in dating
- Know you enough, just as you are
- Create a legacy of healthy, secure relationships
Certified Divorce Coach FAQ's:
- Qualified Life Coach with a specialty in helping clients navigate the divorce process more effectively and efficiently
- One stop shop for support with the emotional, legal, financial and communication aspects of divorce
- Divorce Coaching is recognized as an Alternative Dispute Resolution service - helps you stay out of court, de-escalate conflict, preserve the positives and save money
- Confidential and customized
- Increasingly sought after as the first call when facing or contemplating divorce
- A Certified Divorce Coach can help you build a team of vetted professionals
- Acts as a trusted thinking partner, an advocate, a cheerleader and a divorce consultant, all in one

Meet Heather
Heather Cary has spent the last 25 years bringing out the strengths and confidence in her students and clients.
A CDC Certified Divorce Coach® and CDC Divorce Transition and Recovery Coach®, Heather specializes in helping parents make informed, intentional decisions during divorce and beyond so they can save money and look back with pride on how they handled the challenge.
A trained Mediator and Parent Educator with Clackamas County, Heather serves on several panels with other divorce professionals to offer low-cost, high-impact resources to her community.
She coaches with a unique blend of compassion, humor, a focus on strengths and progress coupled with a firm kick in the pants to become proactive, not reactive.
Her clients do not lack for generous support or resources.
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